 Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body -1Cor. 6:18I know you have read 100's of blogs on abstaining from sex until marriage but I want to look at this from a different angle. The side effects of having sex before marriage. Have you seen a drug addict recovering from drugs and when they get that urge but can't get the drug they start to shake, cry and their body is screaming for that fix. (I often think of the movie "Ray" when he's tied to the bed and he's struggling to recover from the heroin) Well that is what happen with having sex with someone you not married to. I'm not here to beat you up, I'm here to build you up and inform you. The bible says "No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does" So does that mean this sin is "bigger" than the other sins? Although casual sex is the norm in today's society, the bible is serious about the dangers of premarital sex. Have you slept with someone (before marriage) and after a couple of days you start to think more about this person, they dominate your thoughts, and you start to get that "urge" for that person again? The sad part about this is that person can have a kinds of personal issues but they transfer spirits with you after sex. Now one starts to do stuff that's out of character like texting that person every five minutes and wondering what they are doing. Now one's discernment is thrown off and you let that person do stuff that you regularly wouldn't allow if there was no sex involved. Every time you sleep with someone you deposit a little bit of yourself into them and vise versa. You start to lose your "stickability" Look at "stickability" like this, have you ever used tape to get lint off your clothes? after all the lint is off your clothes and into the tape, the tape is no longer "sticky" cause of the lint attached to the tape. That tape is no longer useful, it lost it's purpose. So when we marry we lose our "stickability" see why it's easy to divorce? We used to sleeping with others and breaking relationships. So in our mind "what's the difference when we marry?" Our "tape is no longer sticky." When we decide to abstain from sex until marriage, pray to God that He cleanses us from old soul ties and make one over again. Sign up with Never Again Ministries for more information on marriage & relationships! |
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