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Why a woman shouldn't approach a man when interested in him

I remember as a single man in my early twenties and a young lady approached me "I think you look good, can I have your number?" As I looked her up and down to see if she fit my requirements (I'll let you figure that one out) I gave her my number to give me a call. On my way home I thought, "Wow, She must really want me." Although I thought she was a sweet person, I thought I would use her to my advantage because she approached me first. I was right; she later on called me and was aggressive so I put her on the back burner and dealt with her  when I had time. She wasn't priority when it came to my women because I knew I  had her from day one. Why? Because she approached me first. Aggressive women always get the short end of the stick because she shouldn't approached him in the first place. Wonder why men go to the club? Not to dance but to find women they can sleep with. They look for the loud, insecure, aggressive women while they are posted on the wall, scanning the house. 
 
When a woman approaches a man, he thinks one of four things:
-She wants me
-She's a little too aggressive
-She's needy, desperate for a man
-I wonder what she won't do for me?
 
Since men are hunters by nature, they should approach women. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD. -Prov. 18:22 When was the last time you seen a successful marriage when the woman forces the man to marry her?....exactly. Women, make him work hard to get you. It's not that your playing games but make him earn your love. If you are to easy to get he won't give you the honor you deserve. You deserve royalty! So stop making yourself seem desperate by approaching a man. If he's too shy to approach you, then he isn't the right one for you. He should have enough confidence to approach you.
 
 
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Camisha on Monday, September 26, 2011 3:39 PM
I agree to an extent. I don't believe all men think this way and I wonder, now that your older and your experience has broadened, would you really see an interested women as desperate? Also, I think bar room aggressive is also different from an interested women. I am forward with men, but I also carry myself as a, I not going to toilerate anything women, while adding maturity to a friendship/relationship. What do you think?
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Shon Hyneman on Monday, September 26, 2011 4:15 PM
Maybe not all men but since that happened to me some years ago, since then I dont think times have got better for men, I think times have got worst with all the sexual content in society. A woman who's interested in a man shouldn't approach him. I'm just giving bible


Eric on Wednesday, November 09, 2011 4:41 AM
Regardless of the bar scene, I agree with Shon on this one. When the man is given his woman too easily, he does not have as much long-term interest in her. That's why the fairy tales have him rescue her from a fire-breathing dragon. There is just an ordered nature God put into men (as initiators) and women (as responders) to which we should adhere for the best possible relationships. I've never known a good, healthy, long-term relationship occur when the woman was the initiator. It is just outside of the natural order God set up. It is to our peril when we go against His system.


Shon Hyneman on Wednesday, November 09, 2011 7:04 AM
Thank you for taking the time to read! Of course I totally agree with you
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Courtney Spikes on Thursday, December 22, 2011 10:44 PM
So if you're a woman who has this problem how do you "nip it in the bud"? I know the problem won't be fixed overnight but what are some ways to change this type of behavior?
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Shon Hyneman on Friday, December 23, 2011 11:04 AM
If this is a problem, it shows a lack of faith that God will bring the one He has for you. I know we live in a society where women are more aggressive than ever but just focus on what God called you to do & not to focus on a man. When the woman stop chasing the man & focus on what God called her to do, he will approach you in due season. God want an aggressive woman to seek God like she seek a man


Jesus Christ on Friday, May 18, 2012 2:57 AM
What a joke article! “When a woman approaches a man, he thinks one of four things: -She wants me -She's a little too aggressive -She's needy, desperate for a man -I wonder what she won't do for me?” A lot of Women expect men to know what their thinking and now u expected men to believe, women know what we’re thinking? - Why not? - Or she knows what she wants (heaven forbid) - Or like I said she knows what she wants, not to hard a concept to understand bud! - Wow really dude? Yeah let’s take advantage of women that approach us! Because hey! That’s what decent men do hey! “Since men are hunters by nature, they should approach women” Huh? Yeah I guess that explains why man created shopping malls fast food restaurants and faster means of transport ETC because we’re hunters? I remember the last time I killed my first meal! Oh yeah that’s right now I didn’t I ordered it! Lol “When was the last time you seen a successful marriage when the woman forces the man to marry her?....exactly.” Well you have me there! I can’t imagine any man ever being forced to enter marriage! But it happens! Take for example the Islamic world! “U do! as I say woman or I burn you to death”! Who man or woman would ever desire bring forced either way? “Women, make him work hard to get you. It's not that your playing games but make him earn your love.” Actually playing games is exactly what you’re proposing! If both parties are interested then where does the work come into play? I would have gone with mutual respect, but love should never feel like you’re working! “You deserve royalty! So stop making yourself seem desperate by approaching a man.” I think I figured out why so many women have ego problems! Lol. And desperate? Wow you really do have a low opinion of women hey! “If he's too shy to approach you, then he isn't the right one for you. He should have enough confidence to approach you.” So do tell what’s the deference’s between a man that look’s shy and a man that looks uninterested? Confidence in one thing assumption is another! Moral of the story! Just because we’re both men does Not give you the right to assume to think what how gender is thinking or feeling for that matter! Time to grow up kid, live in the real world.
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Jesus Christ on Friday, May 18, 2012 3:06 AM
What a joke article! “When a woman approaches a man, he thinks one of four things: -She wants me -She's a little too aggressive -She's needy, desperate for a man -I wonder what she won't do for me?” A lot of Women expect men to know what their thinking and now u expected men to believe, women know what we’re thinking? - Why not? - Or she knows what she wants (heaven forbid) - Or like I said she knows what she wants, not to hard a concept to understand bud! - Wow really dude? Yeah let’s take advantage of women that approach us! Because hey! That’s what decent men do hey! “Since men are hunters by nature, they should approach women” Huh? Yeah I guess that explains why man created shopping malls fast food restaurants and faster means of transport ETC because we’re hunters? I remember the last time I killed my first meal! Oh yeah that’s right now I didn’t I ordered it! Lol “When was the last time you seen a successful marriage when the woman forces the man to marry her?....exactly.” Well you have me there! I can’t imagine any man ever being forced to enter marriage! But it happens! Take for example the Islamic world! “U do! as I say woman or I burn you to death”! Who man or woman would ever desire bring forced either way? “Women, make him work hard to get you. It's not that your playing games but make him earn your love.” Actually playing games is exactly what you’re proposing! If both parties are interested then where does the work come into play? I would have gone with mutual respect, but love should never feel like you’re working! “You deserve royalty! So stop making yourself seem desperate by approaching a man.” I think I figured out why so many women have ego problems! Lol. And desperate? Wow you really do have a low opinion of women hey! “If he's too shy to approach you, then he isn't the right one for you. He should have enough confidence to approach you.” So do tell what’s the deference’s between a man that look’s shy and a man that looks uninterested? Confidence in one thing assumption is another! Moral of the story! Just because we’re both men does Not give you the right to assume to think what how gender is thinking or feeling for that matter! Time to grow up kid, live in the real world.
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Jesus Christ on Friday, May 18, 2012 3:08 AM
You’re website sucks I wrote out a rely to your comments in quotation marks with paragraph and your site clumps it all together?
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