I remember as a single man in my early twenties and a young lady approached me "I think you look good, can I have your number?" As I looked her up and down to see if she fit my requirements (I'll let you figure that one out) I gave her my number to give me a call. On my way home I thought, "Wow, She must really want me." Although I thought she was a sweet person, I thought I would use her to my advantage because she approached me first. I was right; she later on called me and was aggressive so I put her on the back burner and dealt with her when I had time. She wasn't priority when it came to my women because I knew I had her from day one. Why? Because she approached me first. Aggressive women always get the short end of the stick because she shouldn't approached him in the first place. Wonder why men go to the club? Not to dance but to find women they can sleep with. They look for the loud, insecure, aggressive women while they are posted on the wall, scanning the house.
When a woman approaches a man, he thinks one of four things:
-She wants me
-She's a little too aggressive
-She's needy, desperate for a man
-I wonder what she won't do for me?
Since men are hunters by nature, they should approach women. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD. -Prov. 18:22 When was the last time you seen a successful marriage when the woman forces the man to marry her?....exactly. Women, make him work hard to get you. It's not that your playing games but make him earn your love. If you are to easy to get he won't give you the honor you deserve. You deserve royalty! So stop making yourself seem desperate by approaching a man. If he's too shy to approach you, then he isn't the right one for you. He should have enough confidence to approach you.
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